Hello, my name is Geo. I am turning 40 years old this year. I was born with Poland Syndrome. This, for me, means that I was born without my right pectoral muscle. I have lacked self-confidence my entire life because of this very reason. I have always had severe social anxiety, and I have never felt comfortable in my own skin. I just feel so different. I hate hiding. Dating has been a nightmare for me, not because I can’t get dates, but because I’m too embarrassed of myself to be my true self for anyone. My last girlfriend, I was too embarrassed to ever take my shirt off, and that was four years. I want to feel confident and be able to take my shirt off. I feel like this will always hold my true self back. I need help from whoever will listen.