My name is Tiffany, and I am a proud mom to a remarkable 17-year-old son with Autism. From the moment he was born, my life has revolved around his needs. At just two years old, he was diagnosed as legally blind, and by three, he was diagnosed with Autism. He spoke early, which brought me so much joy, but then he suddenly lost his language. That loss was devastating, and I felt completely alone. My family offered little support, and his father disappeared from our lives. For years, I was buried in therapy appointments and doctor visits, with no one to lean on. Even my own mother would only help if I paid her, and she acted as if my son was broken. I never dated or spent time with friends because no one understood what we were going through. The stares and questions from strangers made it even harder to leave the house. I often cried at night, feeling guilty and wondering if I was to blame for my son’s challenges. When he was three, I had a nervous breakdown and begged my mom for help, but she turned away. Despite feeling broken, I pushed through because my son needed me. His severe meltdowns were a daily struggle, and I did everything I could to comfort him, even when it meant kneeling on cobblestone streets until my knees bled.
Now that my son is older, our lives have steadily improved. At 17, he is thriving, and I am so proud of the young man he has become. But after years of putting myself last, I realize I don’t know who I am outside of being a mom. I want a new lease on life—a chance to rediscover myself as a woman, not just a caregiver. A mommy makeover would be the first step in my journey to reinvention. I want to regain my confidence, feel good in my own skin, and start living for myself again. This isn’t just about physical change; it’s about finding out who I am now and embracing life with renewed energy for both myself and my son. Your support will help me take this important step toward healing and self-discovery.