Over the last seven days, we have received some medical news that is going to change our lives forever. My wife has an autoimmune disease that is going to be a lifelong battle. One thing I have learned from being in the hospital is that it’s not ‘how are you doing,’ it’s ‘how are you going to pay,’ a sad fact in the United States. I’m starting this for any help one can stand as we are going to have medical bills for the rest of our lives.